"In his domestic administration my father had this system . . . to keep a journal and insert in it all occurrences of any note . . . A record very pleasant to look at when time begins to efface the memory of events, and very well suited to get us out of perplexity: When was such and such a thing begun? When completed? What retinues came? How long did they stay? Our trips, our absences; marriages; deaths; the receipt of happy or unhappy news . . . An ancient custom, which I think it would be good to revive, each man in each man's home. And I think I am a fool to have neglected it." (Montaigne, Book I, Essay 35 (publ. 1580))

Thursday, June 28, 2018

Visiting southern India - final days (back in Bangalore; 2 June - 5 June) (post #5 of several)

[This post - and a few previous posts - cover day-by-day activities during our India visit.]  [Properly-spelled names of folks we visited "to come."]

[As always - click on any photo to enlarge all.]

Saturday 2 June 2018

Now we are spending our final days at OJ Plex in Bangalore.  We got off to a leisurely start on Saturday (after the preceding day’s high activity level).  Enjoyed hanging out and doing projects with Vihaan.
This kid had high energy!  Adults wisely kept up in shifts.


Sreedhar, Dharma, and Janu also did some local errands and trips.  CPG, PJ, and I were trusted to navigate via Uber on our own (well sort of trusted, our hosts kept checking on us!) to a lunch stop and then to Bangalore’s botanical gardens.  We navigated just fine to our lunch stop – the Bangalore Brew Works – this is on the 10th floor of a building in the same general area where we had previously stopped for lunch – and we think they are doing a quite nice job.  Their space is indoor/outdoor – and a heavy rainstorm arrived, causing us to move into shelter – also causing us to stay put while the rain continued, eventually causing us to abandon the botanical garden visit (which we had much looked forward to; next time).

Bangalore Brew Works


We three tourists do manage to line up an Uber and get back to OJ Plex.  Where by coincidence one of the cousins –we had met her at house #3 in the village though she lives near OJ Plex here in Bangalore – saw CPG and me standing on the street – for some reason we were recognizable – so she invites us to visit their nearby home (and wouldn’t take “no” for an answer per usual hospitality!)  Lovely home, good conversation with several family members, great coffee, we stock up on mangoes (from one of their farms), and we learn about the next day’s grand opening at the “Carzspa” right up the street from OJ Plex (a business venture of one of the family members).   

We so appreciated the opportunity to go through the wedding album.


In the evening we spend some time taking a first pass through Sreedhar’s photo album from his wedding (which he was kind enough to bring over at our request) – wonderful pictures, but the bittersweet element is there as well.  We order in dinner and have a fine evening of 5 Crowns, etc.

Sunday 3 June 2018

In the morning our group spends time together at OJ Plex; breakfast; further review of the wedding album; conversation; building projects with Vihaan; etc.
Lots of lovely moments together at OJ Plex.


Next up, we have a lunch invitation with a family group that turns out to be just delightful – another round of great conversation, great food (so many dishes, all quite excellent), three generations there, an observance of C&D’s wedding, the little gifts for PJ (including a couple of her hostess’s bangles that PJ admired perhaps a bit too fervently).   Rain has resumed; we Uber back to OJ Plex where we spend what’s left of the afternoon.
these ceremonies!




fun visit, incredible hospitality




PJ's haul; "Uncle" with granddaughter; great food here




The weather settles down, so our group of seven takes a walk in the neighborhood, with a couple destinations in mind (in addition to just wandering a bit).  First destination:  the Carzspa grand opening – we see our new friends from yesterday and wish them well.
Carzspa has launched.


Second destination:  Vihaan starts first grade in the morning and needs a pair of shoes; CPG leads our strolling group via what may have been the scenic route (though we enjoy seeing something of the local neighborhood); we are reinforced with a mango lassi and coffee; then we get to the shoe store and do our business there.  Temperatures had dropped (due to the rain) so it was quite lovely during all this; we walk back to OJ Plex.

two pals waiting for CPG 'n me to get a mango lassi



now Vihaan is officially ready for school to start


We have supper there – a mixture of leftovers and ordered-in Asian food.  Then visitors – Sweetie and her husband (Bhaskar, who had missed the big party on 27 May due to a conflicting obligation) and their daughter arrived well into the evening.  We appreciated that they made a long cross-town drive to come by, because it was a highly enjoyable get-together.  Sreedhar’s sister also came along, though eventually Sreedhar and she headed out.  We chatted about all sorts of things, very nice, they depart around 11:30p.
we were glad these folks made the effort to stop by


Monday 4 June 2018

Limbering up with "uncle Chris"seems
like a fine way to prepare for school's first day
We are sorry that it’s our last day in India.  Vihaan looks very official and grown-up in his school uniform, and we see him off.  Sreedhar did some errands in the morning.  The remaining five of us had a pretty quiet morning; PJ and I started packing for tomorrow’s (early) flight.  Then we all headed out for a bit of shopping (PJ had a couple things in mind) and lunch – this was fun to do together.



We’re back at OJ Plex by mid-afternoon, and soon enough we have our full group-of-seven.

PJ and I focus on packing – a bit of a challenge to work in the gifts etc. even though we had an extra bag expressly for that purpose – Sreedhar brings the bubble wrap, which helps!
sisters at lunch

Just a very pleasant final evening at OJ Plex.  We work on building projects and play games with Vihaan; we have a final 5 Crowns game (dominated by Sreedhar after a slow start); we order in another round of the Asian food and sip some tea, maybe even a Kingfisher.  The rhythm here:  consistently homey and nice.

Relatively early-to-bed, with alarms set for 3:45am.

hanging out with Vihaan.  our feet are up off the floor, I mean lake,
because it was infested with horrible crocodiles


Tuesday 5 June 2018

We were a little worried about lining up an Uber for the early, and lengthy, trip to the airport – but “worry” was entirely unnecessary as Sreedhar made arrangements with a driver, and he and Chris traveled with us to the airport even with our so-early start time – incredibly thoughtful.  But first:  our goodbyes to Janu and Dharma at OJ Plex (Vihaan’s was last night).  We were surprised to see how quiet the Bangalore streets could be – seemed like even less activity than one would see in Phoenix at 4am to 5am.  At the airport:  goodbyes to CPG and Sreedhar.

one last photo - 5am at Bangalore airport
No issues making it through Bangalore security; British Airways offers us a fine deal to upgrade to business class so we take it (though not quite as fine as we expected); this also gets us into a nice/quiet lounge area.  Flight leaves right on time, no issues, the service and accommodations are great, we get some sleep during our 10-hour flight to London (also plenty to eat/drink).  We had a pretty short layover at Heathrow but the transfers and security lines were no problem at all.  Premium economy from London to Phoenix – everything right on time, we slept more on this leg than on any of the other flights; the 10 hours went by pretty quickly.  Didn’t watch anything other than the flight map.  The “global entry” system was a breeze in Phoenix; luggage pretty much on time; fortunately, PJ and I are feeling pretty much rested and back on Phoenix schedule already.  At the house – we unpack and get things organized, then head out for supper around 8:30p Phoenix time (Bootlegger’s).

I’ll separately write more about trip impressions, just will repeat here:  we do not know how this trip could have been nicer.

Monday, June 25, 2018

Visiting southern India - Mysore; three temples (30 May - 1 June) (post #4 of several)

Hotel breakfast:  dosa, idli, sambar,
spicy donut (and more), yum.
[This post - and a few others (posted or "to come") - cover day-by-day activities during our India visit.]  [Properly-spelled names of folks we visited also "to come."]

[As always - click on any photo to enlarge all.]

Wednesday 30 May 2018

Oh wow that Indian-focused breakfast buffet at Le Ruchi!  What a great way to start the day (seriously outperforming the U.S. free-breakfast hotels).

First order of business – after days of fun-but-busy – was a drive out to a lovely spa – a place Dharma and Janu had visited previously – our group included four customers excited for the two-person massage-plus treatment, while Sreedhar, Vihaan and I instead walked the beautiful grounds and then waited a bit in a nice patio area.  The massagees, if that’s a word, reported complete satisfaction.

L: jackfruit (on spa grounds) looks kind of amazing; top R, those who were not massaged; bottom R, those who were.


This was our first driving-around (passengering-around?) in Mysore – not nearly as hectic as Bangalore (city is approximately 1/10th the size).  We stop by JSS Hospital – where Dharma learned her profession – it was nice to walk into the older section, now largely unused, where she had trained – certainly lots of memories for her.  We had really wanted to see these kinds of places.
JSS Hospital buildings (upper L = new; upper R and lower L are from the "old" section where Dharma attended); quite
the fancy rangoli here (in addition to seeing lovely versions at many of the houses we visited, we also learn that
Dharma and Janu had participated in a rangoli competition way back when (held in a Bangalore park)).


Back to Le Ruchi; Janu and Vihaan remain there and the rest of us head into Mysore proper.

Interior view at Mysore Palace:
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We had very much wanted to tour the Mysore Palace – Mysore seems a place with an older, longer, and imperial, history – at least relative to the more upstart Bangalore – and much of this history is centered on the palace (even if most of the current building is relatively newer construction following a 19th century fire).  The grounds, the palace – highly interesting throughout – we also encountered a huge crowd of visitors, more than our planners had expected for a mid-week visit.  But that rather added to the effect!
Mysore Palace impressed us.






I’m not much of a barefoot-walker – but this is another place where we were learning to leave our shoes with the concessionaire and get used to lots of barefoot walking – guess what, it wasn’t a problem at all.  When we paused to look at things, we occasionally were (very politely) asked to pose in selfies or other photos.  We much enjoyed the Palace tour, and had plans to return in the evening.
Mysore Palace scenes . . . 




. . . we felt kind of popular, or something, at the Palace


We stop in St. Philomena’s Cathedral – quite interesting to see the dual-inscriptions in English and Hindi (or was it Kannada?); but they were pretty diligent about preventing folks from taking photos inside; big renovation of exterior; thought of Grandma Philomena Kohlhaas Bormann.

Sreedhar next had the idea to take us to a large downtown market – it shows up on the map as Devaraja Market – we loved this place and would happily have spent lots more time had it been available.  The sights and sounds of these markets – the variety of vendors and goods – see the photos, it’s hard to describe.  Little moments like watching folks string tiny jasmine blossoms.  Sampled yet another variety of those marvelous small bananas.  Seemed like it wanted to rain, but it held off.

market scenes (photos generally courtesy PJ) . . .
. . . vendor . . .





. . . flower section = unbelievably colorful . . .




. . . and how about these colors! (among other things, these can be used for rangoli I think)



We then work our way back to the Palace area – in the evening there is a light show with a description of Mysore’s history.  We arrive and first visit the temple on or adjacent to the Palace grounds.
The temple on the Mysore Palace grounds.




lovely setting as evening falls (Mysore Palace grounds)


Evening weather is perfect.  The presentation (due to Dharma’s translation) is informative for us – we learn the connection with the Chamundi Hills, for example (mythical demon killed by the goddess for which the hills (and temple there) are named).

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gifts, recognitions, smiles


Now it’s getting rather late, but we have the good fortune to have another wondrous family dinner – the warm hospitality, so much great food; one of the aunties gently chided PJ (who was doing her best but simply wasn’t able to eat in the quantities desired by our hosts) by matter-of-factly stating that PJ “was a very poor eater” – this was a funny moment.

these folks (lotsa personality)!


They kept bringing seconds; when Sreedhar joined us at table (after we were largely finished), he became the sole target of their largesse and it was funny to watch his fending-off techniques.  Thoughtful ceremonies and gifts for us; these gatherings couldn’t have been nicer.

Then back to Le Ruchi.

Thursday 31 May 2018

We began the day by visiting the neighborhood where Dharma’s family had lived for some period of years; one of their neighbors (and a close friend of Dharma’s mom, and the entire family) had invited us for breakfast.  Great food and conversation with these folks; her husband an Indian “folklorist” so that was also interesting.

visiting in the old neighborhood . . . 


We pick up Janu and Vihaan and head to the Chamundi Hills – this is the setting where one can take 1000 steps up the hill to the main temple; we opt to drive to the top and walk down.  Weather good but it could feel a little warm when out of the breeze, so the downhill idea was wise.  Sreedhar arranged for us to bypass the main line into the temple – a big crowd here as well – we understand this to be a famous Hindu temple, shrine portion dates back to 12th century perhaps, I read that the tower portion (impressive in its own right) was added quite a bit later.

L:  Chamundi Hills steps (some pilgrims dab color on each of the 1000 steps (visible with zoom);
top R: fine views including trees-in-bloom; bottom R, monkeys await at bottom




Vihaan in front of Nandi statue (supposedly carved from single piece of granite)


200 steps down from the top there is a separate temple for Nandi – huge granite statue – from here Chris, Dharma, Janu and I continued walking the remaining 800 steps while the others found our driver and met us.  At the bottom of the stairs – the monkeys gather!  So we finally get to see them up-close.  Which was fun though I can’t say that I entirely trust them.  Dharma says they are aggressive banana-snatchers which seems about right.

Monkey business:
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Back to the hotel for another tremendous lunch; CPG and I and Sreedhar sample a bit of Kingfisher with our meal after the heat of the day.  We are continuously impressed by both the staff and the food quality.

Brindavan Gardens were absolutely gorgeous on this evening.


In late afternoon Sreedhar has lined up an outing to the KRS Dam and adjacent Brindavan Gardens.  He explains background of this project (noted in Chapter 33 of this book).  Heavy rainfall as we drive over – which threatened our little outing (and we debate buying umbrellas from the vendors upon arrival).  But instead the rain moves away, leaving in its wake a pretty amazing sky as the sun sets.  As we stroll in the gardens, the light is pretty much perfectly lovely.  And the rain had dropped the temps a bit – felt like room temperature, just right.

clockwise from top R:  KRS dam; Brindavan Gardens; CD cover for would-be band (or something)


We settle in on the patio portion of the Elephant Bar at the Royal Orchid Hotel – right on the grounds – giving us a glorious view of the gardens and the sunset and the dam.  Tea and Kingfisher and conversation – and just enjoying the view and being together here – it was a great spot.  We didn’t make it to what we understand is a pretty impressive evening light show on the dam itself – but that attraction drew most of the crowd away from the hotel area, allowing us to pretty much have the place to ourselves.

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We walk the area a bit more; the vendors with postcards and whatnot are persistent as we get to the parking area (certainly we looked like promising marks) but PJ has mastered the Kannada word to rebuff ‘em; then we are driven back to the hotel.  En route:  a quick stop at a drug store – CPG complaining about needing allergy medication or something.
"drugstore" looked a little different than US-style


Then:  an entirely enjoyable late dinner at our favorite restaurant, complete with the amazing service to which we’ve become accustomed or addicted.

Friday 1 June 2018

PJ's doorman-buddy with daily flower decoration; final Le Ruchi meal,
including pose with that amazing wait-staff.


One last go-round with Le Ruchi’s wonderful breakfast; then we check out and get organized for a pretty full day:  visiting three separate temples, then driving back to Bangalore and our OJ Plex.

One of the best parts of this fine day:  just looking around as we drove.  Will write more about that separately.

this figure was pretty amazing . . .
Temple #1 was the Gommateshwara statue dedicated to Bahubali – Jain imagery – we get there (in the town of Shravanbelagola) after about two hours of driving pretty much straight north from Mysore (so we now were about straight west of Bangalore).  We leave our shoes with the concessionaire and walk barefoot up the 600 steps (carved out of the rock) (but well-smoothed after over 1,000 years of steady use by pilgrims) to the hilltop – we enter the temple with no idea of what we’ve come to see – and I can report that the statue (57 feet tall) is pretty stunning.  (Wikipedia tells me it was voted #1 of the “seven wonders of India” in a 2007 online poll, for whatever that’s worth.)  It was interesting to see Jain worshippers in their yellow dress; also interesting to watch as they pour different colors down from atop the statue.  Great views from the hilltop; then we descend back to the staging area.  Sreedhar treats us to coconut water from the onsite vendor; he and PJ also try some jackfruit.  Pilgrims arrive here from around India, for example a family from Rajasthan asked us to pose for a picture with them.

scenes from temple #1 . . . 
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Now we travel west for about an hour to a very nice restaurant just outside Hassan (Hoysala Village Resort) – this was a good find, very good lunch plus location and timing worked for our somewhat crowded itinerary.

temple #2 as we approach main entrance


Next we proceed pretty much north for a half hour or so – to reach the entirely amazing Hoysaleshwara Temple in Halebidu.  Sreedhar arranges a guide – he does a very nice job of explaining the background – and we need to read more about all this – here is a 12th century temple that was damaged by Muslim raiders in its first couple hundred years – it’s interesting to see where some of the exterior carving was hacked at in those days – but overall this looked largely intact.

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The amount of detailed carving is rather unbelievable – exterior almost moreso than the interior (though it was pretty dark inside, especially as clouds gathered).  Raindrops started falling as our tour continued, and eventually it was a full downpour – which was rather interesting, quite atmospheric, to watch from the interior of the temple.  This spot was lovely throughout and we would happily spend more time here.

CPG gets this interior image while the rain falls outside and we visitors wait inside
(is this the best (most artistic) image of the entire trip?)
Rain continues.  A group of Indian visitors, or pilgrims, had a tarp; they had asked PJ to pose with them; then they invite our group to run with them to the parking lot beneath the tarp (we grab shoes but no reason to put them back on!) – folks on the outside hold the tarp taut – this works pretty well and seemed like a so-friendly, quintessentially Indian way of handling a small challenge – a delightful moment, nonstop laughing and chatter as we hurry to the parking area.

Janu captured this delightful image of the flight-beneath-the-tarp


We next drive through a full-fledged rainstorm to the final temple for the day – about a half hour to the west – this is the Belur Chennakeshava Temple – perhaps most impressive of all for the day, which is saying a lot.  Our driver does a nice job of dealing with the rain amidst the variety of vehicles on the road.

and how about this image (courtesy PJ) as our driver navigates through the rain en route to temple #3


We wait in the car for about 15 minutes or so, hoping for a break in the downpour.  That doesn’t happen so we (all but Sreedhar and Vihaan and the driver) jump out of the car and run for it – never had bothered with shoes when leaving Halebidu so could skip that process here as well.  The rain does let up a bit, but we don’t have a good opportunity to explore the temple’s exterior.  The carving on the interior is even more delicate than the work at Halebidu.  Also built in 12th century; also damaged in wars; dedicated to Shiva.

temple #3 was dramatic from any angle




interior carving was ridiculously fine




inside temple #3


Final segments of our journey have been westward, or away from Bangalore – meaning the return drive is 3.5 or four hours – off we go.  Back seat crew even more heroic than before – during the downpour our driver had the presence of mind to move the luggage from the roof rack into the rear of the vehicle – good for our bags, not so good for those who were further cramped by them.  Occasional rain in the early going – but we make very good time – one stop for a snack – we are happy to be back at OJ Plex!  We settle in; order carry-in food; and much enjoy eating and talking-talking about all we’ve seen during an amazing day.

Sunday, June 17, 2018

Visiting southern India - a trip to the village (29 May 2018) (post #3 of several)

[This post - and a few others (posted or "to come") - cover day-by-day activities during our India visit.]  [Properly-spelled names of folks we visited also "to come."]

[As always - click on any photo to enlarge all.]

Tuesday 29 May 2018

After those fine initial days in Bangalore, it was time for exploring a few other parts of southern India.  So:  good-bye to OJ Plex for a few days.  We had requested to see places with family connections – those turned out to be entirely interesting and fun – just an excellent road trip, well-planned.
outside OJ Plex . . . 


First it’s time to load up our vehicle – after a great deal of effort Sreedhar had located a driver (who turned out to be excellent) with a newish Toyota Innova – it handled all seven of us (plus driver) satisfactorily (however those taking turns in the back seat must have felt squeezed and/or squished pretty regularly, though zero complaining).  The jasmine with god-figure (Hanuman, I believe) on dashboard was a nice touch, we saw these or other versions in many vehicles.  (Identical practice - common in my younger days - seems to have died out among U.S. Christians.)
on center of dashboard (jasmine was replenished as the trip proceeded)


SO much to look at, all the time, as we head out of Bangalore.  Will write more about the road scenery separately.  My neck was getting tired of the constant swiveling action, it was endlessly fascinating.
apparently there somehow are three larger banyan trees in India


Sreedhar had mentioned a huge banyan tree and we needed to see it so this was our first stop – we learn that the single tree covers three acres – I hadn’t really appreciated the spread-potential with this limbs-growing-down thing.  Lovely, shady area – and sure enough there were some monkeys hanging out in the tree! We wander a bit; three fellows from Tamil Nadu ask Chris (later, all of us) to pose for a “selfie” with them (which we hadn’t expected, but quickly became used to); then we’re back on our way.
The Banyan Tree grows up and down - a lot!




At roadside stand opposite The Banyan Tree, these fellows (from Tamil Nadu) were quite friendly. 


We stop for refreshments at a roadside restaurant where Dharma states they often stopped as a family when traveling between Bangalore and Mysore – the geo information on the photos indicates “Kamat Coffee Hotel” – we have tea, mango shake, mango juice; we watch others ordering food; easy to see why they would have enjoyed stopping here.  There is a vendor selling toys (a bit farther down the road is a town called the “City of Toys” – we suspect that this entrepreneur is picking off some of the CoT customers before they arrive at the big show); anyway, PJ selects a bunch of clever stuff for gifts.
toy shopping; restaurant scenes


Uncle (eldest brother on Dharma's mother’s side) had told us during our 25 May visit about a building going up in maternal grandfather’s memory – medical services – near the village where grandfather had grown up – anyway Uncle was kind enough to meet us and give us a tour of the project.  Lots of progress; quite a bit of work remains; very interesting to see.  They were prepared for us – fresh watermelon, etc.  This is a lovely memorial.
inspecting construction at this fine project


Back on the road to “the village” (I believe it’s named Deshahalli, at least per photo geo information).  Our time here was a highlight of the entire trip.  Here's a map showing the village's location - click through to put it in context between Bangalore and Mysore (and don't neglect the satellite imagery option in the map's lower left hand corner) -



First stop in the village is the home where maternal grandfather grew up (house #1 for this village visit) – it’s described to us as a traditional house design – a courtyard in the center (which was a nice effect on this sunny day) – electricity etc. had been added over the years.  A large gathering – the warm greetings; the recognition of C&D’s wedding; many with good English thus easy/enjoyable conversations; an epic feast, we much enjoyed.

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these folks showed us an entirely amazing time; we are gathered here in the central courtyard of house #1



SO much to look at in house #1




Uncle, and others, kept pulling us aside to show us this or that interesting detail or scene - and yes it was endlessly interesting.  We learn about the grinding stone once used for daily(?) fresh spices; we see a heavy stick used to de-husk the rice via a small-ish bowl carved into the floor; folks art on the walls; game-boards etched into the floor; we see the well; on it goes.
the feast at house #1




some of the scenes at house #1




Next we are taken a short distance out of the village – to see the actual farm areas – but first we stop at a small site with a few graves – including grandfather’s (and ajii has gotten hers ready alongside for when the time comes, sad to consider) – it is a fine thing to be able to see this.  Perfect weather all day, and the afternoon sunlight is warm and lovely at this spot.
maternal grandfather's grave - at the village where he grew up


On to the farm – it’s definitely a farm but not at all like Iowa! – we see coconuts, bananas, sugar cane, mango, papaya, teak trees, sandalwood trees, a bit of corn, a rice paddy; sheep, cows, chickens; no doubt plenty of other things I'm not recalling at the moment.

scenes en route to the farm . . . 


Everyone was ready to show us interesting things here.  Including free-climbing up a rather huge coconut tree, cutting down the ripe-enough coconuts, then hacking away the coconut-top so that we could have our coconut water treat.  Including showing us the little calf; the chickens; the rice paddy; the cows; various additional crop-plants; this was relentlessly interesting and our hosts were just so thoughtful here.
farm scenes . . . 


Fresh coconut water:

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Back to the village; the shepherd is bringing his flock back into town right ahead of our car; we stop at house #2 – near, and similar in design, to house #1 – here they had held off milking the cow so that we could see this demonstrated (pretty sure I’ve never seen this before).  Dharma’s mom’s art is on the wall in house #2 (and in other houses); we sit in the cool of the courtyard and enjoy apples, and those tiny bananas, and conversation, and mostly just being together.

Shepherd bringing them home safely.  Driver's jasmine-and-god-figure
in foreground; satellite dishes in background. 




house #2 (similar courtyard) (chalk design (rangoli) visible in courtyard)


From there we walk to house #3 – also one of the relatives – this is a much more modern place with a huge fig tree out front – lovely design.  We have a chance to wash up after all the time outdoors (temps are cooling down a bit as evening settles in).  Coffee, treats, conversation; the little gift and bindi for PJ; just an excellent visit.  Before we depart they hack some sugar cane pieces so we can learn how to properly chew them (I was a slow learner but yes it tasted quite excellent).
such a fine time at house #3


From there we drive to house #4 – also one of the relatives – this is an older place with lovely, interesting folk art adorning the gathering area.  Another round of coffee, treats, conversation, the little gift and bindi for PJ; yes it was another excellent visit here.

we were treated so warmly at house #4




also at house #4 (PJ regularly received this kind of blessing)


From there we return to house #1 – to gather things we had left there during our wanderings, and to say our goodbyes to the group that had welcomed us so perfectly when we first arrived – but, incredibly thoughtfully, they had arranged a little ceremony for PJ and me as groom’s parents – this was a surprise, and quite touching.

back at house #1 . . . where these folks made us feel quite special . . .


Now night has fallen; one of the uncles leads us to the main road on his motorcycle – we are sad that the village visit is over, but keep discussing it as we drive onward to our hotel in Mysore.

Everyone in the village treated us so kindly.  We would love to return.

After a bit of a drive we arrive in Mysore at “Le Ruchi – the Prince” – this is our hotel for the next few days, and we go about setting up our Mysore headquarters here – another fine find by CPG.  It’s quite late by now but we enjoy a surprisingly good Indian dinner in the hotel restaurant (little did we know how much we’d enjoy this restaurant in the next days!); and then we pretty much settle into our rooms.
Late dinner after an excellent day.


An entirely amazing, memorable day.  We are lucky.