Thursday 12 October
Uber to DC's Union Station and Acela Express to Newark. Found our way to the "quiet car". The train is billed as topping out at 140 mph but I'm confident we never approached it. Still - quick, easy, and rather unusual for us. Dave Kollar picks us up at the Newark station and we go directly to his/Sonny's house in Newark metro area - nice! - we don't know this area of the world at all, never quite got used to the Manhattan skyline views that would jump out unexpectedly, whether from a window in their house, or just when touring around area streets. Initial chatting and snacking, then I go back to the airport with Dave to pick up Dan & Cricket. This get-together has been oft-discussed, hard to believe it actually happened.
Initial rounds of appetizers (many fine choices but Sonny's dumplings really stood out) and we tried Dave's Manhattan(s); then a pretty wonderful dinner with kabobs 'n sides, tiramisu, wine, espresso and other goodies I'm forgetting. Dave & Sonny outdid themselves for sure. Lots of chattering, including planning for the rest of the weekend.
Friday 13 October
The day's agenda: hang out in Manhattan. Starting with public transportation (several segments, this alone is rather fascinating to automobile-only folks like us) into the station at the new World Trade Center in lower Manhattan. We wander the area; Dave has lined up tickets to the 9/11 memorial - kind of amazing - we've not been in NYC for quite some time and the 9/11 references are widespread.
Subway to Greenwich Village area where we stop for some small-shop pizza - it sure looked and tasted NYC-authentic to us, a treat. Dave's brother (Ron) ended up out of the country during our visit (which was a disappointment though his excuse seemed legit) - but we used his Greenwich Village apartment as a stopping point - neat all around - we rest there a bit. Then start walking around the Village, eventually wandering for quite a while along the Highline Trail - impressive, especially the landscaping. Walk back to Ron's place; change; walk to Minetta Tavern - a classic NYC restaurant experience; some of us had better luck with our orders than others, but the experience was exactly what we were looking for. By coincidence Nicole was in town getting together with some of her friends; they were in roughly the same area and we missed by minutes. After Minetta we walk back to Ron's place, then reverse our public transportation route back to Newark. With a stop for views of the city looking across the Hudson - lovely, new to us. Back at Dave/Sonny place and we do some planning for the next day. This one was fun.
Saturday 14 October
Some go to pick up rental minivan and Dunkin coffee. After this we drive up to Ron's place in Rhinebeck - our first opportunity to look over the Hudson River valley north of the city. Easy trip up, no traffic issues, we arrive and check out the house. Wander through a few shops and settle into a little place (Gigi) for lunch - fought off some annoying-but-not-stinging bees and moved inside - fun lunch. The town, the area, the fall color (OK not yet hitting in full force due to warm weather or whatever, but very noticeable) - all this really struck our fancy.
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| "historic" post office; Poet's Walk; Bard College . . . |
Wander into some shops; we visit the Beekman Arms (hotel) - open since the 1760s - I kind of got obsessed with their old-school low-ceiling tavern area. Back to the house; all 'cept Sonny head out then to a farmer's market and then to the "Poet's Walk" - lovely low-key hiking taking us to the Hudson. Dave then drives us around the area - we see Bard College, one of the local mansions (Wilderstein); lovely late-afternoon sunshine, this was really pretty. We pick up Sonny and walk back into town, where I finally get my stopover at the Beekman Arms. Eventually we get back to the house and settle in; Sonny converts some leftovers plus this-and-that into a pretty tremendous supper; Manhattan(s); we talk and talk and then it's bedtime. Full day.
Sunday 15 October
Breakfast at a local Rhinebeck restaurant; then we pretty much get organized for the return trip, which is easy/smooth. On the way back we make a stop at a Korean superstore of some kind; Dave and I have a chance to chat while waiting in the car, but it sounds like checking out the store would have been fine also. We then pull into one of the developed/trailhead areas in the Meadowlands for a look-see - had no idea of the nice development that has taken place here - very close to Dave/Sonny house, a nice amenity. Back to the house and we get organized for the airport.
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| Meadowlands . . . |
This was an easy group to hang around with. Somehow we packed a lot of stuff into a short time period, without feeling rushed (Manhattan/Greenwich Village; Rhinebeck; Jersey). The Hudson River valley/Rhinebeck phase was entirely new to us, and a great idea.
And there's something about being around folks that we've known for 40+ years - good stuff!




















