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Our visits home to Iowa are always fine. But this one seemed finer. I think because it revolved around a 60th wedding anniversary for my parents - a number which is pretty astonishing, really. A number that, even
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| The honorees, Saturday eve. Therese found an excellent - and very chocolate - cake. Nice corsage (thanks, Liz). |
if we don't like to entertain the concept, makes us all wonder now and again just how many more of these five-year anniversary increments we will be celebrating. I really don't know what else to say about that. Other than that I am planning on attending #65 in February 2017. And that I declare that plan knowing it can all change for any of us in an instant, which circumstance certainly gives these excellent occasions a tinge of the bittersweet . . .
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| First time we had seen the foundation of the burned-down house, up close. |
As to this trip - something nice was that we were able to visit with different groupings of folks over the six days we were on the road.
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| 50+ degrees in February. Fine day for a stroll. |
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| Get to work please. |
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| Grandchildren who were able to attend. |
Day 1 (Thurs 2/16) - arrived in Minneapolis, killed some time, picked up Nicole at the airport, went to New Brighton - the typical fine hospitality at the House house. We had just been there in November. Dinner at Barley John's with Nick, Therese, Mark, Steve & Cecilia, Nicole, Patricia and me. Back to New Brighton - for five minutes. Then back to downtown Minneapolis where a friend of a friend of Steve & Cecilia was performing at some bar - this lady had some real talent, we thought. Back home - this time for the evening. POC showed up later, though he had to let himself in (and verify location on his own). V. nice that Nicole and POC were able to make this trip.
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| Children who were able to attend. |
Day 2 (Fri 2/17) - coffee and yakking with the Houses; PJ shopped groceries, we drove to Iowa and had late "dinner" with G&G (also Nicole and POC, who came via separate vehicle). Grandma wanted to make "ham balls" for supper and we weren't excited - it's not a very attractive name for a dish. But they turned out
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| Sunday Mass - with nice remembrances of the 60th. Happened to be on the exact anniversary date. |
to be very tasty - good news. We should have had more confidence. This was a nice day, pretty quiet, we all caught up on things. And interrogated Grandpa and Grandma about their courtship, the wedding day, etc.
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| Nice photo. Color-coordinated couple. 60-year-old suit and tie have held up well. Nice outfit, Grandma! |
Day 3 (Sat 2/18) - Grandma felt like she might be getting strep, so she and I went to the ER and found out that she wasn't. All sorts of fine folks were arriving throughout the day: Cecilia and Therese; Dolores and Art; Steve, Liz and Julia; Barb, Emily and Allison. Beautiful weather, we all took a walk up to the hill farm, then up and around the cemetery. Watched the video from the 50th anniversary - which is quite a fine piece. Patricia made stuffed shells for supper (in addition to her usual focus on cleanup) - fine stuff indeed. Very pleasant catching up with everyone. Took some photos of those in attendance. Therese brought a fine chocolate cake that was attacked. The Storm Lake and Mason City folks returned home at night, sorry to see them go.
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| (Back) Mary Lou, Kathy, Irene, Clarence; (front) Mom, Dad, Caroline |
Day 4 (Sun 2/19) - the actual 60th. We all went to 8am Mass - celebrant acknowledged the anniversary, Grandpa wore his wedding suit and tie (and made a few Kirsch-inspired remarks during the Mass about some of the family connections), we spoke with various folks after Mass, all very nice. Clarence and Caroline, Irene, Kathy Baker, Mary Lou came over for brunch, photos, conversation, all nice as can be. Watched the 50th anniversary video with this audience as well - I enjoy watching the video, and watching the watchers; some of this must really resonate with folks reliving events from 50+ years ago. Nicole and POC had to go to the airport. Played cards, had dinner.
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| Much enjoyed revisiting the awesome 50th anniversary video. . . Barb as prime mover on that 2002 project, nice work! |
Day 5 (Mon 2/20) - the day flew by. Cecilia and Therese left for MN. Nice to spend time with them. Nice to have the Haag family folks around all day. PJ and I had a fun visit over to Clarence & Caroline's place in the afternoon. Clarence's typical fine beverage service; good 500 games (Caroline and Patricia won three games to our two, though this came down to the very last hand (in which Caroline blessed the blind being picked up by Patricia - it had four trumps and an ace)); lots of conversation; reminiscing about the very early days of their being together; gracious, fine, a tinge of bittersweet (there's that word again). Played huckledebuck back in St. Joe, had dinner together, chatting, a bit of work on Grandpa's spiffy new computer (among other things, got his photos better organized and Picasa and Google Earth working)); a bit of work on an email to the relatives about Claude's history.
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| Electronic diversions, enjoyed by two pals. |
Day 6 (Tues 2/22) - early start, good-byes, return to Phoenix in time for Choral Union rehearsal.
Not possible to measure how fortunate I am to have these kinds of experiences.
Not possible to measure the benefit to me of having parents like I do.
PJ = good traveling companion.
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| Seven-up game. To be followed by huckledebuck. |
Some information about the 55th celebration - yes, hard to believe it was five years ago - can be found
here,
here and
here.