"In his domestic administration my father had this system . . . to keep a journal and insert in it all occurrences of any note . . . A record very pleasant to look at when time begins to efface the memory of events, and very well suited to get us out of perplexity: When was such and such a thing begun? When completed? What retinues came? How long did they stay? Our trips, our absences; marriages; deaths; the receipt of happy or unhappy news . . . An ancient custom, which I think it would be good to revive, each man in each man's home. And I think I am a fool to have neglected it." (Montaigne, Book I, Essay 35 (publ. 1580))

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Visiting KHG

PJ and I had the nicest trip to Virginia to visit Kerry.  (The visit was part one of a two-part adventure; part two will be described separately).
Attending Handel performance - National Cathedral

Successful shopping at Eastern Market.

Here's how the visit came down:

Saturday, May 11 - long-ish but easy flight; K and Luis met us at Reagan (airport); they hosted a delightful dinner at K's apartment.  Steve and Carrie Jackshaw were integral to planning, shopping and execution of the meal, plus we much enjoyed catching up with them.  And I didn't have to do anything other than enjoy, plus provide some token assistance with the pasta-making process.

National Gallery 
Sunday, May 12 - breakfast at "Eastern Market" - a return trip from our 2011 visit (summarized here).  Crepes are as good as ever.  And a local crafts-person was selling ducks (per photo).  Kerry and Luis had arranged tickets to a Handel performance at the National Cathedral - just the sort of outing we enjoy.  Great setting, excellent performance.  Dinner followed at Belga Cafe - another great choice as we much like this kind of food.  I'm pretty sure I've never seen such an impressive list of beers (with emphasis on Belgian beers, naturally enough).  I can highly recommend the slow-cooked rabbit roulade (accompanied by a "Rodenbach red ale sauce" that tasted as good as it sounds).

We were well treated at Old Ebbitt after our National Gallery tour.

Monday, May 13 - we headed down to the National Gallery; I was excited because these were the very final days of a highly touted exhibition (per article below) of works of the Pre-Raphaelite Brotherhood - I keep seeing references to these folks in various things I read, but really didn't know much about them.  So this was helpful - just a delightful exhibit.  PJ, K and I also enjoyed just touring around the rest of the gallery for a while.  Then to our traditional lunch at Old Ebbitt, where the staff appeared to be in a competition to give us free stuff.  Which always is nice.  Some work in late afternoon, K and PJ did some shopping to get her set up with a herb garden (or large pot, let's say).  Luis and I eventually went out and retrieved some Peruvian chicken.

Monticello

Tuesday, May 14 - Luis took the day off, and drove us down to Monticello - beautiful weather, very fine drive through the Virginia countryside - my first time in this area.  Monticello much worth the trip, it is very well laid out for visitors.  In addition to the house itself, I liked wandering around the garden area (and the grounds in general).  As a bonus, Monticello is near some wineries and even a fine brewpub (where we had lunch and tested their work).  Then did a quick stop at the Veritas winery - enjoyed a nice sitting area there. Hit the road back to the metro area, it was a nice day.  PJ, K and I finished with a bit of supper near her house (Rustico).

Monticello

Wednesday, May 15 - continuing our string of interesting touring - PJ, K and I visited Mt. Vernon.  I didn't know it was basically right in the metro area.  I think it was a good idea to do Monticello and Mt. Vernon so close in time, interesting comparisons.  Huge grounds here with nice views over the Potomac.  Huge crowds (though they handle them well).  After our tour we went into "old town" Alexandria - very nice lunch at some converted firehouse, then walked the area a bit.  Dinner at Lyon Hall - Richard stopped by, also got to meet one of K's pals from work.  A fine game of "Five Crowns" capped the evening.

Veritas winery.
My excellent traveling companions - Mount Vernon (Potomac in background)

Thursday, May 16 - got ourselves organized, and K started driving us up to Lancaster for the big wedding . .  . which is a separate story.

Mount Vernon
To wrap up this one:  I'm sticking to my story about our visit to K:  don't know how it could have been nicer.  (Not surprisingly,) she had a great feel for the kinds of things we were interested in seeing, the kinds of restaurants we would like, etc.  (Not surprisingly,) Luis and Christina were gracious and fun throughout.

Five Crowns battle royale (with K, Luis, PJ, Christina)
Most of all, PJ and I just enjoyed having the time together with our little daughter.


Thursday, May 09, 2013

Faure's Requiem

Way back on April 5, CPG 'n me appeared with ASU Choral Union (and the ASU symphony) (and the Barrett  College Choir) in a performance of Gabriel Faure's Requiem.

For obvious reason, the Requiem liturgy is a great source for composers, and we have benefited from participating in several:  Brahms; Verdi (here and here); and Durufle.

My thoughts on the work are in the emails copied below.  I like Faure's stuff in general.  I very much like this particular work.

We appreciated an extra-fine turnout of our fans, including Patrick (visiting for the weekend primarily for his mother's birthday but showing up for the concert as well), Nicole (who arranged things so she would get back from a CA business trip on time); PJr; Tom & Kim; Ray; MB, Thomas and Amy; and #1 fan PJ.  Made our way over to La Bocca afterward for a nice after-gathering.

Did not arrange photos or videos (my bad); though PJ did snag a few minutes at the outset of the concert before her phone's battery expired (movement 1 plus a snippet of movement 2, below).  You might (unlikely, I know) think it's not worth watching (or at least listening to) because CPG 'n me are pretty much unfindable; that would be a mistake.

Another most fine evening.




From: Paul Gales
Sent: Thursday, April 04, 2013 11:24 PM

Subject: RE: Faure's requiem

Back from tonight’s rehearsal with the orchestra – very encouraging, this will be quite beautiful. 

Specifics I’d listen for in the seven movements (a more general overview is in the email below):

  1. Introit and Kyrie – opening theme – you will hear this reappear late in movement 5.  After the first few lines, Faure starts featuring individual sections of the chorus – you will notice this right away, he continues this approach pretty much throughout.  Starts with tenor/baritone section.

  1. Offertory – CPG pretty much identified right away that this is probably the most interesting movement.  You’ll notice that Faure starts here with two lines – the alto section, and the tenor/baritone section – they criss-cross occasionally, quite beautiful (and a cappella for awhile).  Baritone soloist joins.  The last section – with full chorus – a favorite part.

  1. Sanctus – this and movement five are the most beautiful of all, I think (though it’s not an easy call).  Here, listen for the sopranos and the tenor/baritone sections passing the melody line back and forth, with a beautiful, simple accompaniment pattern from the orchestra running below.  I find this delightful.

  1. Pie Jesu – performed entirely by soprano soloist – and it’s just wonderful – you may recognize the melody as it’s performed separately from the Requiem in soprano recitals (and I think some movie soundtracks).  Pie Jesu (sweet/blessed Jesus) . . . dona eis requiem sempiternem (grant them eternal rest).  “Of all these [Pie Jesu settings], by far the best known is the Pie Jesu from Fauré's Requiem; Camille Saint-Saëns said of it, "just as Mozart's is the only Ave verum corpus, this is the only Pie Jesu".”  Can’t disagree.  (Even better, the student soloist is actually pretty good.) 

  1. Agnus Dei – if you only remember one thing to listen for:  please remember to pay attention to the orchestral lead-in to movement five – then listen how Faure reworks it underneath another beautiful melody line in the chorus (again featuring tenor/baritone section).  Probably my favorite movement, if I had to pick just one.  The movement ends with a short reprise of the opening theme from movement one, then a reprise of that wondrous orchestral lead-in.

  1. Libera Me – baritone soloist does first part – then full chorus – this is the closest Faure comes to a fire/brimstone feel (and it’s not very close at all).

  1. In Paradisum - chances are you will recognize this melody (if for no other reason than it’s used in soundtracks such as 28 Days Later (yes, the recent apocalyptic movie) and The Thin Red Line.   If I do enter a heaven anything like what was taught in 1960s grade school, I only hope that the music of the angels will sound like this.  Mostly led by the soprano section.  Quiet, hopeful finish; consistent with the old liturgy, where this was more part of the burial than the funeral mass.  Chorus angelorum te suscipiat (choirs of angels sing you to your rest); et cum Lazaro quondam paupere aeternam habeas requiem (with Lazarus, once a poor man, may you have eternal rest).  Etc.  Wow.

Still working out our after-get-together but we plan to find something right in Tempe.  Much looking forward to this one.


From: Paul Gales 
Sent: Saturday, March 30, 2013 6:11 PM
Subject: Faure's requiem

Reminder that CPG ‘n me are appearing in a performance of Gabriel Faure’s Requiem at Gammage Auditorium on Friday, April 5 at 7:30p (free admission on this one).

The major composers seem to love working with the “Requiem” concept – many of you have already heard us do versions by Durufle, Verdi, and Brahms.  Faure’s is quite different – beautiful; lighter; ethereal almost; belle époque French; he doesn’t go for the fire and brimstone approach; often showcasing exposed lines from individual sections of the orchestra and the chorus.  Also quite compact, coming in at 40 minutes or less for the seven movements.

It’s quite wonderful, actually.

Let us know if you can attend; we’ll happily buy a round after, likely somewhere right in Tempe. . .

Sunday, May 05, 2013

Nicole b'day!

Wishing Nicole a happy birthday today . . . she is observing the date over in San Diego courtesy of POC (with celebratory support from CPG and EPG).  Diamondbacks have a three-game weekend series over there.

Photo is from her fourth birthday - May 5, 1985 - taken in upstairs bedroom in our house in Roseville, Minnesota.

"Care Bears" apparently were the rage, including the jammies and the watch (among the cards atop the bookshelf).

Here's hoping they had at least as much fun in San Diego as we did in Roseville that year . . .

Saturday, April 20, 2013

First house

There was a pretty big event in mid-April that was rather glossed over - I think because so much other stuff was going on right then.  PJr and Nedda closed on the purchase of their first home!  (And moved in just a few days later (April 13 weekend).)  (Roommates Nadia and Pumbaa followed along in a few days.)

kitchen crew in action in new house
PJr and Nedda found a really lovely place about three miles west/southwest from "Village Fairways" - a neighborhood we always liked (and actually looked at several places with a realtor during our wandering-years).  House is pretty recently constructed, in great shape, beautiful yard, mountain views (will stop since am sounding like a listing agent's ad).

Competing events that very weekend included a CPG birthday celebration in California (that included Nicole and EPG), Diamondbacks homestand keeping POC tied up, and a trip by the Reghabis.

kitchen crew posing
So that left Patricia and I as pretty much the only family members in town to assist with moving.  We had dinner with the housebuyers on Friday evening.  Then we helped them, after a fashion, for parts of Saturday and Sunday.  There is something tremendously exciting about the moving process, I never get tired of it. (Recalling the fun associated with the 7th/Washington move-in, discussed in the middle of this post.)  PJ seems to thrive in kitchen packing and kitchen set-up modes.  Nicole brought over lunch on Sunday (before going to another kickball loss), then we also had dinner there Sunday evening.

This will be a good place to gather.  First house = important marker.

(We did a lousy job of taking photos, so I'm just including the few cell phone shots that I have.)

Day two business:  new ping pong table (after hours of assembly work with Pat H)

Thursday, April 11, 2013

Early season baseball

In addition to access to tickets via POC and the general fun-ness of being at professional baseball games, we have an additional reason to head down to Chase Field:  as mentioned midway through this post, we have a great place to stop off on game day.
Opening Day 2013

Opening Day 2013 was back on Monday, April 1, 2013.  The crew at 7th St & Washington outdid themselves with game-day hospitality on a perfectly beautiful evening.  Tickets; parking; pre-game drinks, appetizers, grilled chicken sandwiches; opening day win over St. Louis Cardinals in front of a sell-out crowd.  Hard to beat, a thoroughly enjoyable evening.

Then back to the ballpark on April 9 to observe CPG's birthday.  Though oops, Dbacks lost pretty convincingly that evening.  But PJ and I had fun with CPG, and POC was able to stop by for an inning or so.

CPG birthday

Tuesday, April 09, 2013

CPG birthday!

I like this photo of CPG with Kelly.  Photo is from March 1993 - taken in kitchen at the house on Claremont Ave.

We were taking a batch of Kelly pictures that day (and  perhaps it was getting a little old from her perspective).

Happy b'day to a v. good son.

Sunday, March 31, 2013

My Mom celebrated her 85th birthday today

The milestone-ish birthday took place on Easter Sunday (March 31).

No new concepts here - I just will note, again, that it's among the very, very finest things in one's life to have a loving, supportive mother.  I've benefited from this for many, many years now.

We had such a fun time at her 80th birthday (described here, and also here) - hard to believe that was five years ago already.  (Not to mention these few remarks from seven years ago).

Happy birthday to a great Mom.

with my mom at Nicole's and POC's delightful wedding reception (ASU) (3/25/11)

Monday, March 25, 2013

Spur Cross 2013

PJ and I do not get tired of hiking the Elephant Mountain Trail up at Spur Cross (north of Cave Creek).  (As also in 2009, 2010, 2012.)  The trail route that we prefer measures out at 6.6 miles, guesstimating 1500+ foot elevation change.  Enough to be interesting, not so much to be exhausting.

We much like the trail under any conditions.  With 2013 turning out to be a great year for desert wildflowers, we can report that it looked significantly better than normal.  Tremendous conditions on Saturday (March 23) - sunny, high of 75, flowers most everywhere (especially poppies, lupine, globe mallow, brittle bush).  We finished up right at sundown, which allows us to do the last half of the hike in the best light of the day.

We typically try to find a local restaurant after these hikes - in this case something called Amaro's, which we enjoyed more than expected - food and drink good, even the live music was very nice.

Another fine day.

Click photos to enlarge . . .

Globe mallow (orange) and saguaro.

Brittle bush

PJ, brittle bush, Elephant Mountain in the distance.

Mexican gold poppies, lupine, teddy bear cholla.

Nearing the Elephant Mountain pass; Indian ruins atop the bluff just to right; beautiful late afternoon moonrise. 

Globe mallow.  Looking especially good in very late afternoon light.

Hard to capture the effect of the poppies and lupine decorating the trail.  Late-day lighting = very nice.

Nearing home stretch.

Last daylight . . . 
Crossing Cave Creek.  Just a few minutes to trailhead.

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Alexander Nevsky

Paul Jr and I were in the chorus for Arizona MusicFest performance of Alexander Nevsky on Sunday, February 24, 2013.

the performers and . . . 
Everything about this exceeded expectations.  We've been at this choir thing for eight years now (mostly at ASU; though this is already year three in MusicFest) and there have been so many fine moments.  This particular performance moment is among the very top  - which was a surprise.  Prokofiev's music really, really works in a live performance setting - even if it's not exactly the kind of thing I would listen to repeatedly in the car (which I do with lots of our other performance music).

Some combination of circumstances came together here - small performance setting at Pinnacle Presbyterian; Bob Moody is very, very good; Rebecca Lord does a great job pulling out whatever the choir has to offer during the prep process; the orchestra is somewhere beyond impressive; Denyse Graves herself adds an entire sheen or gravitas to the proceedings; we had a really large turn-out of family and friends (including Nicole's first appearance at one of our concerts, it is nice to have her here in AZ!); PJ pulled off a great dinner for all at the house after; Pat H's apple pie even turned out.  Not sure how to beat this kind of day.

Some short video clips below (half of the a cappella Rachmaninoff work and about 90% of movement five of Nevsky).  My source assures me all copyright rules were followed.  But the recording volume was ridiculously low, so it's almost inaudible without turning up speakers.

I wrote up some before-and-after descriptive stuff in emails that are copied (with somewhat erratic font and color results) below in this post, with some details.

I found everything about Nevsky to be highly interesting.

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From: Paul Gales 
Sent: Monday, February 25, 2013 11:19 PM
To: 'Dolores Cullen'
Subject: RE: Nevsky update

It was wonderful to be a part of this performance, better than I expected.  (Though the way the dress rehearsal went on Saturday, you could tell the performance was going to be pretty special.)  When I was in the midst of the performance on Sunday, I kept thinking “I don’t want this to be over, I don’t want this to be over” – it was that captivating.  It is quite an experience to be in the midst of this kind of performance while it happens.  The festival orchestra is just amazing, at least to this pretty unsophisticated observer of orchestras.  And it is a good sign, better than vigorous clapping, when people in the crowd are jumping to their feet and yelling right after the closing note.

. . . key audience members.
I think I like being such a complete amateur about all this – naiveté is good – I have to believe some of the thrill wears off, or at least transmutes into something different (probably better, but whatever), for professional performers who are regularly involved in high-level performances like this.

Prokofiev, Shostakovitch  those folks – I don’t how to take them.  I’ve never liked listening to their stuff on CDs or whatever – it strikes me as agitating, noisy; but usually I’m doing something else like reading or trying to work or whatever, so that’s a recipe for a bad outcome.  The few times I’ve attended live – it’s been very compelling.  I need to be more open-minded on this.

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From: Paul Gales
Sent: Saturday, February 23, 2013 4:50 PM

Subject: Nevsky update

Reminder that show-time is 3p tomorrow (Sunday).  We will need to be early to deal with will-call lines for ticket pickup.  It takes 30 minutes from our house to get up there. 

Today’s dress rehearsal – was fantastic.  We got to hear Denyse Graves do her solo – that alone will easily make the trip worthwhile.

We also learned that a translation of the Alexander Nevsky words will be projected as superscript – which is great.  You need to  actually live the story right along with us to get the feel for the work, and the ready-translation will help.

Some thoughts you might find useful as you listen to the seven movements comprising the 40-minute work: 

  1. First movement – “Russia under the Mongolian Yoke” – the orchestra is setting the stage here; no chorus.  This movement is about the Russians dealing with the “Golden Horde” (Mongol threat from the east).  Bad times indeed; and then another threat rises from the west. 
  1. Second movement – “Song about Alexander Nevsky” – I just love the very opening line of music in this movement (which is the very first thing the chorus does) – very simple, but sounds great.  (Listen carefully for it, you will want to remember this first exposition when the very same line returns, big-time, leading off the seventh and final movement.)  This second movement is all about setting up the story – an overview of the epic fight to save the homeland.  Starting with whomping on up some nasty Swedes on the Neva River (this is hundreds of years before Peter the Great built his city there).  The Russians splinter the bad guys’ ships!  The Russians don’t spare shedding blood!  Things like that, very edifying. 
  1. Third movement – “The Crusaders in Pskov” – if it isn’t one thing, it’s another – now the Teutonic Knights, invading from the west (modern Germany), capture the City of Pskov as part of their evil designs.  The chorus sings in Latin here – which I guess is what Prokofiev associated with the German invaders?  (Anyway – whenever you hear Latin, we are channeling the Germanic bad guys.)  Awful, awful things happen in Pskov as it is captured by the brutal Teutons.  The situation is dire, to say the least. 
we're in here somewhere . . . middle of third row from the bottom
  1. Fourth movement – “Arise Ye Russian People” – The Russians now prepare to attempt to expel the heathen invaders; I much like this movement.  Mostly this is martial, Russian music; but with heavy folk music flavor.  There is a beautiful melodic theme in the middle – you will hear it from the women, then repeated immediately from the bass section.  (Worth remembering! because this melody will come back, most effectively, with violins-only at the very end of the fifth movement, and then again from the full chorus in the final movement.) 
  1. Fifth movement – this is the famous “Battle on the Ice” – a showpiece for this hand-picked orchestra.  The chorus contributes music from time to time, very similar to our Germanic riffs from the third movement – meaning we again sing in Latin – the same Latin words but at what I’ll call “ramming speed” as the Germans hurl themselves into the decisive battle.  The battle rages; you will hear the chorus (as voice of the Germans) weaken and drop out.  The orchestra starts hitting some more triumphant-sounding themes from the Russian melodies.  The orchestra sounds just great; you can feel the big losses as each side continues fighting; then the battle sounds die away and the movement ends with a sad, almost-haunting, violin-only repeat of that beautiful theme from the fourth movement.  It was a victory, if a terrible one, for the Russians. 
  1. Sixth movement – Denyse Graves steps up for her solo – “The Field of the Dead” – lamenting the loss of so many brave Russians in the noble and victorious cause, praising them.  I’ve never performed with a “star” before and yes, you can tell the difference.  The lyrics are evocative; pathos; the words include a powerful image of the female singer’s kiss on the eyelids (which really is quite the homage to the deceased if you think about it . . . ) 
  1. Seventh (and final movement) – “Alexander’s Entry into Pskov” – the very first thing you will hear is a reprise of that very first line from the second movement that I love so well – but in a much grander presentation – I think I’m in the minority, but still think these opening moments of the final movement are the very finest part of the entire work – it is a great melodic line, and even more effective here because it follows immediately after all that ice-battle mayhem and then the Denyce-lament.  I think these first few lines of movement seven are just priceless.  But others prefer later moments in this final movement and they may well be right, especially the way Prokofiev works with that wondrous theme from the fourth movement.  There are some folk-music type passages, including where the women-singers are getting flirty or coquettish with the manly Russian warriors (quite understandably given our prowess).  Throughout the final movement you will be hearing reprises, with Prokofiev-wonderful orchestration, of the best passages from the entire work; it is a great finish. 
After a few rehearsals, I can now see why this entered – and has stayed in – the canon of works for full chorus and orchestra.

And then there’s the a cappella Rachmaninoff Ave Maria that we will be performing just before Nevsky, styled in old church Slavonic . . .

See you there.  Dinner follows here at 11419 (thanks, PJ).



From: Paul Gales 
Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2013 2:42 PM
Subject: Alexander Nevsky

We’ve mentioned to most of you already that the MusicFest performance of Alexander Nevsky is on Sunday, February 24 at Pinnacle Peak Presbyterian (same place as MusicFest performances in the last couple years).  Here is a bit more info.

Paul Jr. and I will be singing in the chorus (as proven here:  http://azmusicfest.org/html/chorus.html).  Denyce Graves is soloist.  The chorus also is performing an Ave Maria by Rachmaninoff.

Ticket and full program info here:  http://azmusicfest.org/html/dvorak___denyce.html.  (Unlike ASU Choral Union, this is pricy; though at least we can get tickets at 25% discount if you order through us.)

Alexander Nevsky background is highly interesting, at least to me – two big Russian names involved - Sergei Prokofiev wrote the music for a film by Sergei Eisenstein – the history is here in this article (involving Joseph Stalin, anti-German sentiment, pulling the movie out of theaters when Stalin and Hitler entered into their surprising 1939 truce, etc.):  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexander_Nevsky_(film).  The movie itself is easily findable on YouTube – the plot involves the hero (Nevsky) fighting off foreign invaders in medieval times. 

Prokofiev’s music was then reshaped into a choral work.  Lots of very nice moments, and a finale that I expect will cause you to take a detour on your way home to attack any Germans you can find (and maybe even a few Swedes for good measure).

Let us know if anyone is able to attend and we will figure out post-concert accordingly.

Thanks as always.

Monday, February 25, 2013

another reason why money is spent on marketing

I just can't figure out why massages are so popular.  To me:  they seem quite creepy.

Doesn't the sign-being-replaced in this 1/28/13 cartoon constitute truth-in-advertising?

(This post prompted by random conversation held 2/24/13.)

Friday, February 22, 2013

Snow day

Snow days are not mundane occurrences here in AZ.

This excitement took place on Wednesday, February 20.  Right here at 11419 we experienced a short ice storm (top two photos).  POC was working, or something, over at Salt River Fields (D'backs spring training), where what looks like "real snow" fell (bottom two photos).





Saturday, February 09, 2013

Loss

My little sister, Mary, died on January 23, 2013.  She was 48.

It is a big loss.

I like this photo of Mary from her wedding day (May 23, 1998).  (It was used for the program at the memorial service on Thursday night, 1/31/13.)

It was good to be together with the whole family up in Iowa for her burial, and gracious of Steve Rottler to make it happen.  Don, Andy & Sandy also were incredibly thoughtful throughout (including A&S hosting PJ and me during our short trip to Seattle).  I was glad Kerry was able to make it up to Iowa with us.  The Capesius-hosted family dinner on Friday night (February 1) at the county nature conservancy gathering-hall was good and helpful; the Mass and doings in St. Joe the next day (February 2) were all extremely nice (not to mention well thought out); we also enjoyed hanging around the AmericInn lobby late-night.  Among many other occurrences.

People have been incredibly kind.

I think I took for granted that we in the family would have an indefinite period of time in which to shape and enjoy our relationships as adults.  But we don't.

I continue to have lots of other thoughts and feelings about this, but for now will just post an archive copy of my already-public thoughts as prepared for the congregation at the Mass (below).

Flowers from Clarence & Caroline mark Mary's grave.  Nick & Theresa Gales headstone at end of the row (Mary's great-grandparents).  Visible in deep left-center background (esp. if photo is enlarged): glimpse of the building site on the farm just outside St. Joe purchased by Nick Gales; this farm is where Ernest J. & Veronica Gales raised their family; this is where where Ernest M. Gales grew up; this is where we as children celebrated holidays, walked beans, and had lots of other experiences.  
(Charlie photo, 2/3/13) (Click to enlarge.)







In addition to posting the comments from the Mass below, I'm including two other archive items below:
  • memorial program
  • some pretty remarkable remembrances of Mary that were publicly posted on the funeral home website (not sure how long that site will be accessible so will save a copy here).


Mary (Final With Postscript) by pgales56

Friday, January 04, 2013

Year-end 2012

As in several previous years - I don't seem to post much stuff in the last month or so of the year.  Mostly because of the typical year-end rush - work, visitors, holidays, fun.  Or something.

Thanksgiving turkey in danger.
This year felt more rush-y than most; hard to compare from year to year, but probably also more fun.  Some stuff that happened:

Herman in danger?
1.  Thanksgiving break (extended version).  If I'm remembering correctly, Patrick and Kerry showed up the weekend prior, and Kerry was able to stick around through almost all of the week after (per next paragraph).  Typical fun, wonderful Thanksgiving cooking, etc.  Nicole and POC back in Chicago for the holiday.  Kerry's visit was a sneaky surprise, well executed.

Hmmm.  Coloring contest, 4th place winner.
2.  CPG goes to the doctor(s).  CPG had his long-awaited jaw rework performed on the Tuesday after Thanksgiving.  It was a big process but all seems to have gone very well indeed.  Kerry stuck around to support her big bro.  She and PJ slept overnight in CPG's hospital room two straight nights (spartan accommodations at best).  K helped PJ do some home nursing, then PJ took over; I didn't do much except a few things while PJ was away (next paragraph).  CPG set himself up on a couch, complained remarkably little, eventually got back to eating somewhat normally.  Success.

Nursing (or is it camping?) team settles in for CPG sleepover(s).  Yup, that's all of their bedding.
3.  PJ goes to Chicago.  Second weekend of December:  PJ traveled to Chicago and helped Nicole box up the stuff in the condo.  They visited some of the local restaurants, etc.  Reportedly got a lot done.

Crossing the U.S.A.; steely resolve in evidence.  Like the pioneers.  Inspirational.
4.  Holiday concert.  ASU Choral Union performed its holiday concert on the second Sunday in December - very good crowd at Gammage (it's been a few years since we did our Christmas concert there).  We did a version of "In the Bleak Midwinter" that I really liked.  Also liked our version of "In Dulci Jubilo."  Concert was good.  (But I had zero fans in attendance, between illness, travel, work commitments.)

5.  Christmas break (extended version).  Kerry and Patrick again were able to arrive early and stay late - nice!  We didn't decorate the house (again) but may do so next year.  (K did put a goofy Rudolph type mat outside the front door, however.)  Christmas Eve dinner at Beckett's Table - worked out well.  Our cooks did a great job on Christmas dinner.  PJr/Nedda arranged Suns tickets for two nights in the GT box, fun.  MB hosted a dinner one of the nights after Christmas.  Steve, Laura, Gavin Buck stopped by a couple times.  Etc., no doubt I'm forgetting a lot.

CPG at townhouse on
Washington St. 
6.  Movies.  Went to the theater with groups twice - unusual for PJ and me, we haven't been to the theater since this one.  Saw "The Hobbit" - first of three parts, Peter Jackson does a very fine job with these things.  And I like 3-D.  Saw "Les Miserables" - I think this version really worked.  But I'm not very objective about this musical.
POC admiring kitchen/dining area.
Washington St. townhouse.

7.  POC and Nicole arrive from Chicago.  POC (with Kent) took a three-day joyride in a rental truck full of the condo furniture, arriving mid-day 12/29.  "GroupMe" updates kept us informed.  Nicole (with Erin) flew in on 12/28.  Poised to move (with CPG) into a quite delightful townhouse right at 7th St and Washington in downtown Phoenix.

Drybar'd for NY Eve.
8.  CPG and POC move downtown.  While POC was on his joyride and the ladies were lunching at BJ's, we were working 12/29 to pack up CPG's stuff at 11419.   On 12/28 we also were dealing with Nicole's remaining stuff at 11419 (K was useful with this).  Rented a truck on the morning of 12/29 and got most of the stuff out of 11419, in truck (lots of help from EPG and Pat H) or carloads.  PJ set up the townhouse kitchen, yeoman effort.  This will be a great place for them to live.  It was quite fun for the nine of us to work on this project together (with assist from Pat H).  Lots of work, rapid move-in.  It is exciting to have them finally settling into AZ (though Nicole has a bit of work wrap-up remaining in Chicago).  

9.  House to ourselves.  Mark it down:  12/29/12 was the first day since 5/8/81 that PJ and I had all of our kids living outside our house and paying their own rent.  We believe this is a permanent arrangement.  (12/30/12 was a big cleaning day for us, as you might expect.  And then we hosted the entire group for a PJ-prepared spaghetti dinner that same evening.)     

10.  New Year's.  Dinner on New Year's Eve at Mary Beth's with a small group, very nice.  Tom Lordan discussed his upcoming trip to Miami for ND's national championship game with Alabama.  Next-gen had a nice time at townhouse and "Copper Blues."  They showed up surprisingly early on 1/1.  Had some kind of nice chicken dinner for everyone at night.  Patrick drove back to Santa Monica evening of 1/1.  Kerry left 1/2.  Nicole left 1/3. 

Ready for a night on the town, or something.  NY Eve.
All nice as can be (other than those departures) (and that 2012 went by too quickly).

Onto 2013 . . .

Thursday, January 03, 2013

EMG's birthday

My Dad's 84th birthday is today.

A thought that always bears repeating:  it's a wonderful, wonderful thing to have a great Dad.  And how nice is it to have him still healthy, still willing-and-able to theorize-on-demand?  I'm lucky.

I always liked the below photo:  EMG and his first grandson (that would be Chris).  August 1, 1982.  With CPG in tow:  EMG seems pretty confident about the prospects for his dynasty.  (Or am I misinterpreting that expression?)

EMG and a contented CPG, 8/1/82.  Living room ("parlor") on farmhouse.
EMG attired in customary "Big Smith" overalls.
Lamp in background courtesy of "Father Theobald."  

Based on the date, Patricia and I (with Nicole (<15 months old) and Chris (<four months old)) must have taken a quick trip from our Glenview, IL townhouse out to the farm shortly after finishing the Illinois bar exam.

Happy #84.  (For prior EMG birthday musings, click here, here, here, here and here.)

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Friday, December 21, 2012

Saturday, November 17, 2012

Minnesota-Iowa (November 9-14)

PJ and I had another enjoyable trip up to the Midwest . . . we are semi-regular about doing this in November (in addition to whatever anniversary, wedding or other trips to the Midwest as take place at other times).

Unfortunately, we didn't do well with taking photos of our adventures.  So just a few cell phone snaps here.

Visiting Therese at ARC offices.
Started in the Twin Cities as usual.  Something new:  stopped by for an inspection of Therese's office (America Refugee Committee) in Minneapolis.  It was nice to see the place - top floor of an interesting building, great layout, etc.  Then up to the House house  - chattered awhile, dinner out at some nice Italian place, much enjoyed catching up with Margaret, Nick, Therese, Cecilia, Steve - just a nice evening, then we slept over.  Typical coffee and chatter session Saturday morning, then we had a chance to see Kieran, Liam and Josh.  A fine lunch with Therese and Mark, then hit the road for Iowa.

Me 'n my Mom putting together genealogy email to Mich Lanners.
Beautiful but unseasonal conditions on Saturday - almost too warm in the car, outside temp showed 77 (Des Moines set a record for the date).  Easy trip down to St. Joe - but we were just a bit too late to attend a Bormann wedding, just a bit too early to meet up with Grandma & Grandpa (who were still at the wedding).  So we spent 45 minutes at "Pep's Place" in downtown Algona - interesting spot.  Then back to St. Joe for chatting etc., plus a light supper courtesy of Grandma.

Card-playing pals.  V. fun.
The weather was changing dramatically - heard the wind howling all night - it was 27 when we woke up, had to scrape a little ice off the car before heading to Mass at Livermore.  Breakfast at American Legion; supper at night at Algona KC Hall (St. Cecilia's parish supper).  Steve stopped by in pm, we visited Babe Marso farmstead down by Ray Gales farm (sale preparations underway there).
We stopped by the farmhouse . . . I like this scene . . . including rotary hoe trapped by volunteer trees.
Had a chance to play cards and enjoy refreshments with Clarence and Caroline - delightful as always.  Especially because I had ridiculous good fortune with the cards.  Went to Mason City one night for dinner with Steve & Liz, we had a most enjoyable evening over there.

EMG inspecting the goods at Babe Marso's place.

Back at St. Joe - the usual fine round of talking, eating, dealing with occasional phone calls and guests - we have a very comfortable routine there, very nice.  Also spent some time working on set-up items on their computer - which is quite nice but still not entirely transitioned from the previous model.  Did inspection tours of the hill farm and the farm where we grew up . . . EMG has really cleaned up a bunch of brush etc. at both places, looks quite different (better).

Babe Marso sale items . . . 
Easy return trip to Phoenix on Wednesday.

These little trips are consistently delightful, we enjoy keeping up with folks this way.